5 Things To Know Before Getting Into A Relationship

To love and be loved is the best thing that could ever happen to anybody. Many people pray and wish for better relationships but end up being dump*d.

The broken heart becomes very common due to our inadequate preparations before getting into relationships.

It’s everybody’s dream to wake up beside that special person every blissful morning, look the person in the eyes and tell them the well-rehearsed words that will sound as sweet as vanilla in their ears. But the question is, how many people were able to achieve this?

People are getting divorced every single day, what may be the cause? That’s the question I used to ask myself anytime I heard about those incidents. Whose fault is it? What about the children’s feelings? Who is going to take the responsibility? Many questions run through my mind with the speed of light without waiting for answers. I wonder if I will be able to find the demanding answers to them. But finally, it’s so clear to me now that many people get into a relationship without being prepared physically, mentally, and spiritually. Now let’s get into the things you need to know before jumping into relationships.

1. You need to love without reason.

Many people choose their partners today by just looking at their beauty, how fair the person’s skin is, and how rich the person is. In a nutshell, they choose their partner by looking at the person’s appearance. One thing you need to know is even though appearance also matters, character matters most. The character cannot be seen with eyes that’s why it’s very important to search for a well-mannered person. It doesn’t matter how much is in the person’s account. Money will not respect you but is the person that will respect you. Do you want to be spoiled with money and be disrespected by your partner? If you the person because he or she is handsome or beautiful, what if one day that beauty fades, if one day that handsomeness fades, ask yourself, will I still love the person? Will I still stay with them despite their condition? Love without a reason.

2. Prepare to forgive without a second thought.

In a relationship, there are bad moments, there are good moments and there are great moments. You need to be prepared to face everything that may come. Be ready to forgive your partner no matter the crime he or she committed, no matter how bad the person hurts you, you need to learn to forgive. The relationship is never a war zone to be always quarreling, be the first to take the bold step to say sorry even if you are wrong.

3. Be ready to be supportive

One person cannot form a relationship, it takes two to form that and it just take the same two to build it to wherever they want it to reach. You shouldn’t allow one person to always cart for the house even though that responsibility solely belongs to the man, we need to act like humans. We all know money needs to be searched for and is not that easy finding it, so as a woman finding something doing that could generate a little income to support the family. When money is not a problem in the house than learn to buy surprise gifts for your man. It takes two to create and it must take two to build it.

4. Learn to trust

This is difficult for many people to do but to save yourself from premature death and blood pressure, you need to learn how to trust even if the person is not trustworthy, LOL. You need to know that in this life, no human with flesh and blood apart from Jesus Christ is perfect. It’s human nature. Don’t be too protective to the extent of becoming annoying. Allow your partner his or her privacy and stop nagging. Do men nag too? lol.

5. Don’t be too expectant

Another bulletproof to save yourself from unnecessary disappointments. Something you can’t do for yourself don’t is bashing other people for it. When your partner promised you something, stop being like a school bell. Reminding the person every second. Pretend as if no one owe you anything.

I hope you make the right decision. Thanks for reading. Good luck.